Sometimes it's frustrating being a woman!

We have a three day weekend starting tomorrow and a few of my new friends and I want to go off ship, have an adventure. Alas, we're all fairly new crew, don't know our way around Freetown/Sierra Leone, or really how to get around efficiently. Thus we were looking for some guys to go with us, but every guy we know seems to be working or wanting to rest :( We really just want to go by ourselves, but a group of women can be treated so differently than a co-ed group. It's frustrating! Guys never (or rarely) have this problem. :(